CAN WE BE ARRESTED IF DAUGHTERS EX HAS A ARRANGEMENT ORDER BUT HAS BREACHED

[Kerrie22]

Today 06:39 Kerrie22

Hi wonder if anyone on here can help me or send me in right direction my daughter's ex boyfriend has a child arrangement order for my grandson from the courts now the issue we got us we went court and a court order was made that she see her son every two weeks and then in summer holiday he was to come and spend time and sleep over at her flat he won't let this happen he often messages her arging then stating she ain't seeing her son anyway we went back. To court because when she finally did see her son he had unexplained bruises on his face arms he had dog hairs all over his clothes looked a right tramp and told us things that happen in house and he says he don't want to live there he wants to come live with my daughter his mum other month we got a message saying he can't walk on his foot we had numerous different stories to how this happened he left it two days before getting it checked and this was only a it to stop my daughter having her normal contact my daughter ignored his request to not come down staating he was taking my grandson to a n e but daughter went down and met them at the hospital his foot was still quite badly swollen even after two days they exrayed it lucky he only bruised it but they put a hole in his big toe to stop it falling off they said the question I want to know because he only five years old and we are going back to court she has applied for full custody the ex has decided to let my grandson come down for bit I think this is because we going back to court for breach of court order and custody we want to know can we keep my grandson down here till we go court for safe guarding him or will the police arrest my daughter and return her son back to him sorry this is an essay but really need to know if we can keep him till we go back to court

[AuntMarch]

Firstly, this seems to be in the wrong place, it may be worth seeing if admin can move it.

Currently the legal standing is that your grandson lives with his dad. You have no parental right and cannot decide to take him away. If you are concerned about his safety you must contact the child protection team.

5 year olds get bruises without realising, and if he played with the dog that morning he will be covered in dog hair. Depending on what it is he says he doesn't like that happens in the house, it doesn't sound like great evidence I am afraid. I would however keep a record of dates and times that things like this happen;
e.g.
XX/XX/XX - dad cancelled access meeting due to (whatever excuse)
XX/XX/XX- Unexplained bruising to face. Clothes dirty and untidy. Child states "(word for word what he said about home)"
XX/XX/XX - Meeting cancelled due to Child beign taken to A&E two days after injury to foot, mum saw child there instead.

[Kerrie22]

They both have parental responsibility even though there is a arrangement order in place the main reason we was going back to court was because dad has breached court order the reason why asked if could keep him and apply.for a.section 8 was because he has in the past threatened numerous times she could not see her son or have him over night then day before changes mind about contact visits expecting daughter to have the money and change her plans although her son would always come first and she has on numerous times lent money from me to go see him on such short notice we are just concerned that he is going to do this the day before he due to come sleep over as this will be the first time he is allowing him to have over night sleep so we just thought if we got him to save the heart ache if this happening again before court date

[Kerrie22]

Could admin please remove this post and put it where it should be please this is the second time I have moved it I'm new on here and don't actually know where I'm suppose to put it many thanks or can someone mention this on my behalf to admin much appreciated xx

[AnneLovesGilbert]

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