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Can someone please help me figure out who the father is??(5 Posts)
Hiya!im really worried,I had sex with two different men and I'm trying to find out which one it could be by the dates. I had intercourse with man A on the 24th of September, I then had a light period 3 days later,then on the 10th of October I got some spotting,on the 14th I did a pregnancy test and it was negative. I then had intercourse with man B on the 14th and have just found out I am pregnant on the 2nd of November!i took a digital clear blue test which says that I am 2-3 weeks pregnant,I think they do it from conception so it's more likely to be man B right? But it doesn't explain the spotting after man A!!
You will defo need to do a test when born , I was no angel and had split with my partner , slept with one of my best friends , slept with another guy , fell pregnant thought was other guys going by dates and turns out was best friends , problem was he had a family xx
5 years on we are still best friends I'm with my partner he brings up our daughter like his own and who needs to no it's our business xx
I think I could be pregnant now reason I'm on here but defo my partners xx lol xx never had anyone else from our daughter xx lol xx
Life is so complicated or we complicate it anyway best wait until born and do test for sure tell both guys and be honest about situation xx sleeping with 2 guys isn't a big deal in this day and age xx
I did think it was at the time which I'm sure you do also but it's truly not xx good luck xx
Be honest with both now and do A test when your baby arrives.
Do you know when your period was actually due?
It''s important because just to confuse things, doctors count dates from your period NOT conception. You have nearly three weeks between men so you might be able to work it out from a dating scan.
Also look up how many days pregnancy is and use that rather than weeks.
I would also trust your instinct. Easier said than done I know but you probably have one you prefer it to be which you should ignore and listen to your gut. DNA tests are easily available. Don't panic!
Honestly I would say it is probably man B
Youv had two lots of bleeding after A which could have period or early miscarriage. You did have a negative test as well afterwards.
The dates match on kit too for October conception.