I’ve known I was different all my life but was diagnosed with Aspergers 4 yrs ago. I am 57. I think I learned early to mask well and there are few people who “believe” I have autism. I had a career in a very person centred arena and was in a senior role when I left. My DH knows about my condition and has always playfully teased me about my preference for animals over people 😉
However, as I’ve aged, I’ve become less able or just too worn out with the masking. DH and I were recently discussing a a Social get together which was a weekend away and I said I found it “pretty excruciating”. I was at my Aspie best. Couldn’t think of much to say until the conversation moved on; missed cues over and over and eventually, separated myself politely and let it all carry on around me. DH was cross. Sarcastic.
I’m worried that it’s going to be difficult staying together going forward. I love him to do things and tell me all about it when he gets home but less and less do I want to struggle through social situations. It. Is. Exhausting.
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MissKittyBeaudelais · 12/01/2020 22:01
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