Anyone read stuff by her? Is she a reliable source?
I've been questioning myself so much lately about Autism...could I be on the spectrum? I don't know what to think. Is never even considered it before my Ds was referred for assessment for ASD.
I've had depression since I was a teenager and it was diagnosed in my early 20's and I was given anti depressants. I've been on and off them ever since (I'm early 40's now). More on than off. They keep me stable, but I still suffer episodes of depression.
When I was young I felt like I was 'different' like my best friend was only my best friend because she was being nice to me because she knew there was something 'wrong' with me. I have always had good friends, but I do think I've always found relationships quite hard work. I often feel I just don't quite fit in wherever or whoever I'm with. I've found friendships really hard to make over the last few years as I've moved about a bit - I realised then I didn't like change!
I have very low self esteem but have managed to achieve a post graduate degree and became a professional. However, I struggled through university taking double the time to complete my course due to depression and feeling overwhelmed and ridiculously stressed. I haven't worked since having Ds (who's 5) and the thought of going back or having an interview fills me absolute panic and literally freezes me up. I think it's because I hated feeling 'put on the spot' and not feeling 'prepared' for what they'd ask me. I found working very stressful as I'm a perfectionist and need to 'over prepare' to feel ok, but it meant I worked ridiculous amounts of hours and had no life!
My brother went off the rails around 7 years of age, was bullied at school, started having violent outbursts, started refusing to go to school. My mum struggled as she was a young single mum and we lived amongst many middle class 2 parent family affluent people. By age 12 he's been excluded from
School and was in a special unit which he barely went to either...he got in with a dodgy crowd and ended up on a very bad path. My mum finally lost touch with him and I did for a while too, but he'd pop up from time to time and contact me. He was/is still very volatile. But as I'm learning about ASD I'm almost convinced he could be on the spectrum. He's always had terrible eye contact, but I kind of put that down to him being a bit shifty and telling lies a lot! He was very bright at school, but just struggled in so many ways...he was labeled as naughty back then.
Anyway, back to Aspiergirls, I was reading all the sections and whilst there are many that I don't think apply to me, there are probably the same amount or more that I feel do.... But wonder if I'm just imagining it or being silly even thinking it. But wonder if it could explain my long term mental health issues in some way too?
I've just always felt 'lonely' or 'different' and always trying to 'understand' myself better and don't.
Thanks for reading my long and garbled message. I hope it makes sense and some of you can give me your advice or words of understanding or wisdom.
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