My twin boys are now 4 weeks old - born at 34 weeks. I also have a 2 and a half year old dd. We spent the first 2 weeks in hospital and when we returned home, we realised that having twins plus a toddler is a huge juggling act. The boys would take a long time to feed and are feeding every 2-3 hours. My dd's behaviour was starting to be affected by the fact that I spent all day sat on the sofa feeding them. Initially she was happy for me to read to her etc while I was feeding them but, day by day, she started doing naughty things to get attention.
At 3 weeks we made the decision to use more bottles during the day so that i could give her more attention but it has now got to the stage that any feeding that i do with them is a nightmare - she wants me to play or wants my attention and I can't give it to her.
We've now made the decision to stop completely - husbands doing back to workl day after tomorrow and i simply can't feed twins plus look after toddler. Have not fed them for 2 days and breasts are completely engorged. But why do I still feel bad about this decision? Am I doing the right thing? I have given them a month of breastmilk but am still massively questioning our decisioon. I just want my milk to dry up completely so that I can't go back. Has anyone else had this issue?....
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TaraQ · 14/03/2009 14:39
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