Good evening, I have been watching MN for a while and have had the temerity to post a couple of thoughts in conversations. It just seems a bit rude - no one knows me from adam and I feel as if I'm butting in. Am I? Can you guys let me know what is the etiquette? You all seem to know each other well and I feel as if I'm the new girl at school! BTW twins 10 months old and all is fine!
Hello and welcome, just post when and where you feel like it, have a nosy at peoples profiles/photos and pop into the multiples bit they are a lovely bunch,i have twin girls who are 14. there are no rules as such cos we would just breal them you see
Crikey! I hadn't realised that being clubbed was part of the initiation. Feels like an american frat house. I'm having nothing to do with weird dressing up or small furry animals! Twins are boy/girl - jobdoneanddon'tcomenearmewiththatthinggagain.
Hello and welcome! No, course you are not butting in... post whenever and whatever you want. But beware... some women on MN are very scary (not on the multiples thread of course!!). But don't be afraid to say what you think.
Am hoping no-one minds, but I am new to the site and new to motherhood! Not sure which one scares me the most! My twins are 6 months old, born 2 months prem, a boy and a girl. Dad works on rigs, and I feel like I am going crazy still! Is this normal?!
plj I found it very different having twins to having a singleton. Have you been to a local twins club? I found it a great source of support talking to people who knew exactly what it is like. It was also less bitchy than regular toddler groups and everyone helped each other, never looking down on anyone whos child misbehaved.
Thanks everyone. I haven't managed to a twin club or anything, so it's great to have some contact with 'the outside world'! My health visitor is great supporting me with the twins, must I miss the 'grown up talk' and a bit of banter.