Hi there
This is my first post on mumsnet and need help!!
I am currently nearly 9 weeks pregnant having had IVF. At the 6 week scan I found out it was twins. My partner was not at all happy about it, just wanting one, but by the end of the day and after talking to my parents, calmed down and seemed excited for about a week.
However for the last week he has been freaking out again and is not being supportive and basically horrified at the idea of twins and doesn’t want them and wants to end it.
He is really struggling to get his head around it and I’m struggling to support him too and keep reassuring him. I’m worried we may separate and this is obviously causing me a lot of worry and heartache as I have longed for a baby for years.
I also still feel in limbo until I get to 12 week scan as it still doesn’t feel totally real so I feel I can’t relate until that point.
Any advice on how to get through this??
I’m hoping it’s sheer panic and being overwhelmed, and he has a tendancy to do this, but it’s making life very tough.
Many thanks xxx
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LL82 · 13/08/2018 19:14
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