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YourNewspaperIsShit · 10/08/2016 00:16

Did anyone feel like they wanted multiples desperately before they had them? I've dreamt of it for years, I know there are risks and can't explain at all why I feel this way Blush

Doubt I'll ever be fortunate enough but I think it's such a blessing.

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CathFromCooberPedy · 13/08/2016 22:28

I have 3 friends with twins. I think it would be amazing, but I've honestly never wanted it because l struggle sometimes with my two singletons (that are 5 years apart! Blush)

There is something kind of magical about it though. Hope you get your twins Smile

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Quodlibet · 13/08/2016 22:31

God no. Best of luck to anyone with multiples but DP and I were discussing yesterday how we can't fathom how anyone could actively want to have two babies at the same time! We struggle enough with one at a time.

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neversleepagain · 13/08/2016 22:35

I love both my children and cannot imagine my life without them but holy shit we've had a rough ride having twins. It's put both dh and I off having anymore dc.

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SnowInLove · 15/08/2016 20:26

Ditto neversleepagain!

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Bananalanacake · 15/08/2016 20:29

Or are you hoping for triplets :)
You said multiples not twins.

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OneFlewOverTheDodosNest · 15/08/2016 20:41

There's twins on both sides of mine and DP's family, in fact in both sides of both sides if that makes sense. I waver between thinking that twins would be lovely, that twins would be horrifically difficult, and worrying that if we had an only the first time round we'd end up with triplets for the second!

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TheEagle · 15/08/2016 20:45

I adore my twin boys but man alive am I glad at the end of every day when they're in bed!

I was never someone who wished for multiples but I am glad we have our twins.

My twin pregnancy was miserable and I hated that I couldn't take care of my older son properly during it.

Multiples are amazing but overwhelming so be careful what you wish for Wink

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Potplant · 15/08/2016 20:49

I can't imagine life without them and I adore them but I would Most definitely not recommend having two at a time.

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AnotherUsernameBitesTheDust · 15/08/2016 20:51

I'd always imagined having twins since I was a child, and I got them (DC 3 & 4)

I loved it, loved seeing how they interacted as babies and toddlers. They're 12 now and still lovely. (Mostly!)

When I was planning DC no.5 I thought it would be lovely to have twins again - but when I actually got pregnant I came to my senses! Luckily there was only one!

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ElodieS · 16/08/2016 15:56

What potplant said!

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idontlikealdi · 17/08/2016 13:31

I'm with Potplant too!

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yoyobananas3 · 18/08/2016 10:18

Also with pot plant....been a tiring 13 months.

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