I'm at the end of my tether with not being able to step out the house without people stopping me with the pram. I understand they want to admire them and are fascinated by twins, but I'm quite a private person with people I don't know well and it's got to the point I almost dread going out with the babies. It doesn't help that DS is a terrible screamer in the pram so it attracts even more attention than the huge double buggy would normally!
I know some people enjoy the attention and it makes them feel special, but because the conversation usually turns to very personal questions (are they natural, what birth did I have, I must have been massive - I'm very petite and I'm very self-conscious about my postnatal body, so I don't really like being reminded) or innocuous things that I don't really want to discuss, usually if my husband helps a lot but I've been a single parent since birth. I've had a few comments such as "how could he leave such adorable twins, maybe you'll get back together" or "the kids are better off without him!" and I know they mean well but I don't want to discuss it, nor do I feel rude enough to cut them off!
So I'm wondering - at what point did your twins stop being mini-celebrities? My neighbour told me the other day that they are famous in this small town we've moved to and they are talked about all the time and everyone says how do I cope! I'd like to know at some point things will return to normal(ish!)
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When did your twins stop getting so much attention?
Pointytoes · 21/10/2015 10:06
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