It goes through phases but recently it has got so bad that I can't stand it any more. There is hitting, kicking, throwing things, breaking each others toys, screaming, shouting, crying, using things as weapons on each other, hair pulling, biting......tbh it frightens me . Their teacher at school thinks even in twins it is beyond normal. We try to talk to them and to give them ideas of what they could do differently to deal with it, do rewards for days they don't fight etc..... It works for a day or two, then kicks off again. When they are not fighting they are very, very close and also really sweet . (we suggested sending them away somewhere separately for a bit to give them some space from each other, but dt2 said that being separated would be like a part of him dieing!
I want to know if anyone else has it as bad as this. Any tips and advice.
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ItIsHowItIsx · 09/10/2015 10:46
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