I'm a mum of an 8 year old boy and 3 month old twin girls. Though my sons dad and I get on well and he has regular access, my daughers' dad wants nothing to do with them and has barely been seen since the pregnancy started to show. All through my pregnancy my mum said how she would be there for me and the girls, and help out so that I could spend time with my son, but since they've been born i've hardly seen her. It seems that everybody who offered support while I was pregnant now just says "I don't know how you cope!" and leaves it at that - if I ask for help then it's invariably inconvenient.
I just don't think that I am doing the best for any of my children at the moment - my son loves his sisters but i'm afraid that he's taking on too much personal responsibility in an effort to take the pressure off me, and when the girls are crying I don't even know what to do: if they're clean, dry and fed and just want cuddles, how do I decide who gets the cuddles?!
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Finding it hard to cope.....
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Stella843 · 21/01/2014 20:07
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