Please??
I am 15 weeks pregnant with twins. We have a 6 year old & 16 month old already. This pregnancy was planned & luckily it happened as soon as we started trying. However, the twin part wasn't planned & I am still struggling to get my head around going from 2 children to 4.
I've lost count of the amount of people who approach me in the playground, crowing "Twins?! You must be MAD" or "How will you cope with four children - it will be SO HARD". One woman just approached me & was saying "Twins? Oh no, oh no". I barely know her!
I am tired and extremely hormonal and sick of the thoughtless comments and stupid questions I'm being asked: "Did you know it would be twins? Did you know there would be a risk?".... I didn't even know how to respond to that one! And don't get me started on the people who eye my stomach and gleefully say "Imagine how HUGE you'll get".
Yes, I know it won't be especially easy, but as soon as I had my first scan, I knew how much I wanted both the babies. Another bloody unhelpful comment I kept receiving was "One might just disappear you know. It's common for one just to die"
Saying that, my close friends & family (and DH) have been really supportive and positive. It's the people I don't know well who seem to be passing comment & asking invasive questions. I don't like being the centre of attention at the best of times & at the moment I just feel like screaming at people: "If you can't say anything nice then don't SPEAK TO ME AT ALL!!".
Okay, rant over :-) Please, please, tell me some lively stories that will help me to look forward to the arrival of twins & perhaps convince me that I will cope after all...
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DigestivesWithPhiladelphia · 03/08/2012 22:19
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