Dd1 is 3.4. The other day she said to me, I'm black, and you're white mummy. I want to be the same as you.
I said things like she's special because she's a mix of daddy's colour and mummy's colour which she seemed happy with. Up til now I haven't talked about colour with her, as I didn't really want to start labelling people as this colour or that, and she regularly sees her dad's family, and mixes with kids of different colours /cultures with my friends / pre school and play groups so gets plenty of exposure to herown heritage, and others.
She's obviously got to a stage to think about things so I want to be more prepared
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splishsplosh · 23/05/2009 22:45
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