Ok.. I am a stay at home mum. how do you guys make your husbands contribute helping at home? Do you have a schedule or something... I thought British men contributed, but not the case with mine. I am always asking him to do things, and when he does do something he makes a big deal of it, for examoly, today I made dinner from scratch, lunch, breakfast, took care of toddler, cleaned kitchen and child and I are not well past few days.
Husband comes back from biz teip and tells me house is a mess and whem asked to bathe child, he tells me I am on my phone and should usw the time to clean house, anf put child to bed.
I had to cut my mother's call, and my sister's calls, which are international calls coz husband gets annoyed at me for doing anything on the phone at all, even after I finish cooking, cleaning and just settle down.
How do I set about making him contribute, without making it a big deal whenever he remotely does something that I do everydaybwithout any appreciation at all?
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mymotherslove · 07/09/2018 19:37
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