My sister has just had her 12 week scan only to find out she has miscarried.
She is feeling really confused and guilty because when she first found out she was pg she was considering an abortion (it was unplanned and her ds is only 7 months old). She soon decided though that she really wanted the baby and she would manage with 2 young babies with the support of her family. She was really excited this morning before going for the scan only to find out that she had lost the baby.
I really don't know how to support her. My dd is only 5 weeks old so I'm going to feel uncomfortable being around her with a newborn baby.
It all seems so much more complicated because she was so unsure about having the baby in the first place. I know that my feelings are certainly mixed about it. I know she would have struggled financially with 3 children (she also has a 6yr old ds) and it would have been difficult to cope on a day to day basis but despite all that I'm really sad for her.
Is there anything you can really do or say to make someone feel any better after a miscarriage? I just feel so useless about how to help
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Brighteyes · 29/06/2005 16:51
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