Hello all. As some of you may have read on here, I had a MMC which was diagnosed at 9 + 4, they think our little bean stopped growing just after our early dating scan I had an ERPC two days ago.
We TTC-ed for a long while and eventually conceived on holiday. We knew exactly where the bean was conceived because the early dating scan pinned it down. Because of that, in my head, I named little bean after the place he (and I always thought it was a he) was conceived.
The thing is this: while we were away (and before we knew about little bean) DH bought a picture of the place where little bean was conceived because it is a genuinely beautiful place. The in-laws (who still don't know about little bean) had it framed for Christmas and it is now hanging on our wall.
I now can't bear to look at the picture because it reminds me every day of what we have lost. Do you think I should ask DH to take it down (he has no idea I feel like this)? Or do you think in time that I will look at the picture and think of how happy we were in the weeks after we found out I was pregnant?
Help please... (bit heavy for a Friday night but I am in recuperating from the op and I am ruminating on this!)
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pinkypanther · 06/02/2009 21:33
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