I had a miscarriage at 3-4 weeks which ended a week ago (some ladies here will know as they supported me through).
My GP said there were no rules as to when to try again; the doc at the hospital also said that we can try when we feel ready.
Well, we do feel more than ready than ever, and we haven't used contraception this week. But when I went back to the hosp for a blood test on Friday, to check my HCG levels, the nurse said we should have waited until I'd had a period. When I told her we'd already had unprotected sex twice this week, she looked very disapproving and stressed that we needed to wait.
I asked whether, if we'd conceived this week, there would be any added risks to me or to the pregnancy, and she was very vague. Essentially it seemed she was saying that it's just easier to date the pregnanct if you wait, but wouldn't be pressed on any health risks.
I feel like I keep getting this whole business wrong: not knowing I was pg, having a miscarriage, and now ttc too soon. And this is supposed to be the most natural thing in the world!
And I'm worried that if I am pregnant again, I've done something to jeopardise it by conceiving so soon after mc.
I'm also confused at the conflicting info I'm getting.
Any words of advice?
NB I passed the "main" part of the mc miscarriage on Tues 15th Jul. The mc ended last Sat 19th.
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Should we have waited?
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Joy27 · 27/07/2008 20:29
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