Hi all,
I just wondered if anyone else had any experiences of their partner really struggling with a miscarriage.
I had a missed miscarriage (at 9 weeks) two weeks ago.
I have (kind of) come to terms with it and although I was dreadfully upset, it has given me hope we can GET pregnant as we had been trying for a while and it was our first.
My man however is still struggling. Although he was fantastic at the time, the more I get 'better' the more depressed he seems.
This is compounded by the fact that no one asks him how he is- it's always
'how is she?'... and on the day of my D and C his mum sent me flowers and didn't mention him. Or US.
He really wanted this baby, probably more than me now I look back, and he feels as though his world is falling apart. He had struggled with depression before...
He is seeing a councillor this afternoon, but I wondered if anyone had any words of wisdom??
Thanks in advance.
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BumpVLump · 24/07/2008 11:22
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