Hi,
I found out I was pregnant in early January.
2 weeks after I had a day of brown spotting and my GP said not to worry it is very common.
4 weeks after positive test I had spotting again this time red and slightly more than before so I called EPU and booked in for a scan.
1st scan they couldn't see anything
2nd scan they saw a possible sac
3rd scan saw a confirmed sac but smaller than expected so they said maybe I had my dates wrong so we waited 2 weeks (in the 2 weeks experienced spotting on 6 of these days and a small bleed day before next scan)
4th scan showed the sac had grown ever so slightly but it should have been a lot bigger and the sac was the wrong shape. They found an empty sac and was told to expect a miscarriage.
I started bleeding the next day and going through a miscarriage now. I am finding that my emotions are all over the place. sometimes feel strong mostly feel heartbroken. I feel like I am grieving the loss of a baby but it didn't get to the stage of a baby. It's a strange feeling. I lost the baby before it to an embyro or before the embroyo got to a baby but in my head I already had a baby growing inside me as the body took so long to realise what had happened.
I hope I have made sense just wanted to get some feelings out helping it will help
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Rainbowbabywillcome · 23/02/2021 10:35
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