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Sex post ERPC (sorry TMI)

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elc19 · 30/01/2020 01:31

I had an ERPC last Thursday so I am now one week post op.

No bleeding since the actual day of op.

We haven't had sex since finding out I was pregnant mid December (high risk pregnancy as recurrent miscarriages and pelvic rest advised).

As you can imagine, it's been nearly 6 weeks since sex and I miss it and DH misses it, although he has never complained and the safety of our baby and now my insides healing are his priority which I'm grateful for.

Do you think it would be okay to have sex? I'm not talking hard, rough sex but gentle and obviously we will use protection as I do not want another pregnancy before we have some medical answers/another full cycle.

Opinions please 😊

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Nics23 · 30/01/2020 09:58

I had an ERPC on Monday as was told sex was fine as long as the bleeding had stopped. Like you, I’ve not really bled since the operation so I figure it might be ok. We haven’t done anything yet but I would like to

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elc19 · 30/01/2020 20:52

Thank you @Nics23 for your response. Hope you are recovering well and so sorry for your loss! X

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Nics23 · 30/01/2020 21:28

Thank you, I hope you’re ok too. So sorry x

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