I found out on 8th april i had a missed miscarriage, i only found out due to having bad cramps and pain in my lower back(no bleeding) and was advised to go to a&e as maternity unit dont see anyone before 16 weeks, i was given an internal scan where they suspected my worst fear. I had to return to hospital a week later to confirm everything just to be sure my dates were not wrong and again my baby measured at 5/6 weeks, i should have been 11 weeks at that stage. (While here i was expected to sit in a waiting room full of pregnant women coming out happy and smiling with their scan photos, i am happy for them but it was pure hell knowing what news i was going in to get) the doctor confirmed what i already knew! I had started bleeding lightly on the Monday before my follow up scan so was again advised to wait another week to see if nature takes its course and my body could pass the baby naturally! I am up for another scan now on wed 24th april and praying i will be told its all over. Today i am in absolute agony, i am having really bad cramps and lower back pain, the bleeding is starting to get heavier with larger clots (sorry TMI) only i dont know what labour feels like i would swear i was in labour! (My other kids were sections) in short this has been the longest most horrendous couple of weeks of my life, i am now regretting not asking for a d&c sooner! I can honestly say i have never been in this much physical and mental pain in my life! Has anyone been through this? Please tell me it will all be over soon cuz i honestly dont know how much longer i can do this before it breaks me ðŸ˜
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