miscarried at 25, scared as hell!

[noor777]

hi all,
i'm 25 and i miscarried 2.5 weeks ago. I have started trying again this week because i stopped bleeding last week and got a BFN on Sunday so looks my body is good to go again. what are your experiences ladies of conceiving after a miscarriage? i want a baby so bad! good luck to others in my position TTC.
Love xx

[frenchonion]

I conceived pretty quickly after 12 week miscarriage. Baby is now 4. Sorry for your loss. Look after yourself x

[Squiff70]

Please consider waiting for a normal period before trying again. It gives your body (more specifically your womb) time to recover x

[cocoxx]

I agree, wait untill after your first period after miscarriage, can cause other complications for you, doctors/midwives will always tell you to wait untill after your first period & then go from there. Good Luck x

[sophied1983]

I was told at the hospital yesterday that the waiting until after your first period is for selfish reasons only - so they can date pregnancy. No suggestion that conceiving before then would increase chances of another miscarriage.

[raindropsinspring]

The recommended wait time isn't always selfish on the part of the hospital......your body has been through a traumatic event and your uterine lining needs to recover. If you don't wait you put yourself at risk of another miscarriage (I know as I didn't wait and had back to back miscarriages followed by a near fatal ectopic as the miscarriages has caused a build up of fluid in one of my tubes)

[sophied1983]

Sorry to hear that. I'm just going on what they told me at the hospital during my scans and SMM.

[cocomelon23]

That's very soon. You need time to heal and recover.

[sophied1983]

The guidelines used to be six months to let your body heal but has changed now.

[sugartitz]

I miscarried last year and was pregnant four weeks later. The only reason you are told to wait a period is for dating purposes, and some evidence shows that pregnancies immediately after miscarriages have a better rate of success

[Darkbaptism]

Sorry for your loss.

I miscarriedy first pregnancy at 20 weeks when I was 21. I then had two successful pregnancies followed by another miscarriage and then another successful pregnancy.
I got pregnant 6 weeks after my second miscarriage and it was hard going as it felt like the longest pregnancy ever but worth it!

[currantbeings]

Hi love, I’m the same age as you. I MC’d one baby at 6 weeks when I was only 16. The next one i miscarried at 5 weeks when I was 19, I had DD (now 5) when I was 20 - easy pregnancy and birth. Then another MC at 6 weeks, an early MC (positive test the day before my period was due, started bleeding two days later) and then a MMC in June last year at 11 weeks. Currently 29 weeks pregnant with DD2.