hello,
it's been nearly 4 months since I found out I was going to need an operation for a missed miscarriage at 9 weeks. I know it's probably all normal but i seem to be okay the 2 weeks in the middle of my cycle but i dread this week leading up to period - i dont get excited that i might of conceived again because I just do not feel positive that it's going to happen again soon. the first time took 10 months - certainly not as long as some I know but a lot lot longer than an impatient 23 (at the time, 24 now) year old would of expected. I want it to happen again so much but i actually feel completely at a loss during this week like i fall apart and i actually find my period very traumatic in itself now (lost a fair amount of blood after op). I guess I was just wondering what others found helped them not just during their periods after but in general?
such a cruel thing to go to, i go through feeling like everything happens for a reason to a real burning anger like but why did it have to happen to me when i see the worst kinds of people seem to get it so easily.
i just needed to get some stuff of my chest I guess - i have no friends who understand this either as have never been through it and a lot of people are aware of it as my partner (against my wishes) told many people we were expecting before the worst happened which I find ecen harder to deal with especially when they are quite careless around me. my partners brother was asking me the other day if i thought it would be better to have a boy or girl first!?
sorry to go on but any coping tips would really be appreciated and sorry if this was rambled xxx
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Hopex3 · 26/02/2019 15:07
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