Hi all,
I just want to have a rant and see if I'm just being completely crazy here. I always think that when you have nothing better to say to someone in a situation like miscarriages unless you've been through one yourself, there's hardly anything you could say that probably wouldn't offend. This is my third miscarriage so when hearing the same thing over and over, it's hard to keep myself sane. I was told that there are plenty of options to make us become a parent and just stay relaxed about it. I can't stay relax because I'm just going through a loss and it's a rather difficult time. People talk about it as though I could have another and replace and it's like I'm replacing a car. This potentially could have been a living person.. and they're gone. I know sometimes people are just trying to be helpful but I think they've just really manage to touch a nerve when they talk of their job situation bring how crap and here's me. I'm not saying their work situation is unworthy of mentioning but when I'm just this upset and then there's them offering me solutions and they're getting all worked up about a job . I think they should just shift the focus on themselves. I'm just so frustrated that people need to understand there's not always an answer to everything and sorry to hear is just enough.
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Rant - what do people say to you after a miscarriage?
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Mochiface · 15/02/2019 14:33
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