Hi, I found out on Wednesday at our dating scan that our baby had sadly died a few weeks previously. This was a massive shock as I had no signs of miscarriage and still very much felt pregnant. I am booked in for an ERPC tomorrow but have started spotting over the last few days. I have been very up and down emotionally since finding out and it’s been very tough at times.
A very good friend of ours had an important celebration last night which we went along to for a few hours. Everyone was surprised that we went but I felt like it would be good for us to do something “normal” and talk/think about something else for a bit. This is where i’m struggling, I enjoyed myself (obviously it was in the back of my mind the whole time but outwardly I was enjoying being out). I am now feeling very very guilty about this on top of everything else. I realise I’m overthinking things but I feel like I’ve totally minimised this awful situation.
Sorry for unloading, my husband (who has been amazing) doesn’t really understand this guilt and thinks I’m just punishing myself for nothing.
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Feel guilty for enjoying myself
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Pitt1983 · 01/07/2018 07:47
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