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Thatgirl123 Tue 19-Jun-18 18:27:45

My due date is in a few days, I don’t know how I’m feeling at the moment I’m not crying, just feel a bit sad but I feel so guilty that I’m actaully ok.
What did people do on there due dates?
I haven’t got anything of the babies to remember them by and that hurts as I just wished I had something to keep. Any suggestions? X

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Eeeeek2 Tue 19-Jun-18 18:38:42

Do what you feel feels right for you, there are no hard and fast rules. I named my 2 lost babies, but only I and dh know that. You could buy a teddy or babygrow that you would of if they made it to term. Plant a tree in memory.

As for the due dates, the first one I booked off work and sobbed and ate crap and watched rubbish tv. The second I hugged my ds as much as he would let me and was grateful to have him.

Sorry for you loss, I hope you find your own way to mark the day.

Thatgirl123 Tue 19-Jun-18 18:45:22

Thank you, I didn’t know what I was having, did you?
I’ve thought of a girls name but at the moment it’s nust bubs.
I might just have a look online and see what you can get xx

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Eeeeek2 Wed 20-Jun-18 05:56:35

No I didn't know if they were boys/girls but I just had a feeling, I could be wrong but I don't think it matters, it who I imagine they were. It might not be right for you because everyone is different. Do what feels right.

Naughtykitty Mon 25-Jun-18 01:01:35

@Thatgirl123 I have just written a post very similar to yours. I did not realise yours was here. I'm torn between doing something as my DP suggested and keeping myself busy. I'm not sure what feels right. It's hard.


Thatgirl123 Mon 25-Jun-18 07:58:50

Hello my due date was Friday I had a course all day for work so I kept myself busy. I’ve got a little necklace I wear in memory just so I have something x

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