So yesterday (May 26th) my daughter should have turned 21 had she not been born prematurely at 28 weeks. This day would have been hard enough but I lost another baby on Christmas Eve 2017 whose due date was only a few weeks ago (April 28th) and I just feel so lost and empty.
I have a lot of other stuff going on that I won't get into here but I'm left feeling really alone. I'm not with the babies farther I have no family and my best (only) friend says she's there for me but isn't.
AIBU? Do I expect too much? My friend spent my babies due date with me which was really kind of her but her son has some stuff going on right now she is preoccupied with that (Adult son, he's older than me, married with children). So last weekend she had said she would message me on Saturday to seee how I was doing but I heard nothing until 10pm on Sunday night saying sorry she hasn't messaged but her son had needed her. I felt so completely abandoned and then when we spoke on Thursday she said that she would spend my daughters 21st with me but she needs to go see her son. It felt like she was saying that she could be there for me but has more important things to do. I get he's her son of course he is more important than me but he has 2 brothers and his wife I literally have nobody. She did text me yesterday to say she was thinking of me but that's it and I haven't heard from her since. I haven't spoken to a soul since I left work on Friday night and I feel so alone.
How can she say that she's there for me when she ignores me the way that she does?
Is it me that has the problem? Am I being unreasonable?
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LoveOfAnAngel · 27/05/2018 15:02
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