I am 37 and lost my 1st baby a week after she was born due to a bad intenstines infection, back in Sept 16. Gave birth to her when I was just 28 weeks pregnant. Got 2 friends in their early 40s without any children but they are trying like mad. I also have another friend who already has a 3 year old boy but she lost her second baby about a year ago. Now she is due in a couple of weeks with her 3rd baby. I always kind of thought she is lucky that she has a child already and she was always occupied by caring for 1st son and possibly she wasnt drowning in sorrow just like I was with no other children or things to occupy my mind. She is really happy she is pregnant again and I am for her, but I really dont feel comfortable with the whole situation. And I am a bit jealous. It would bring me and my husband so much happiness if we had another baby. We have been trying for our second almost straight after we lost our 1st (I was hoping if I get pregnant again my baby daughter will come back to me which might sound silly to some of you).I dont feel anyone out there is in the same situation as me. I feel lonely. No one said to me happy mother's day. On TV for the last couple of weeks I was bombarded by ads regarding mothers day but no mention of mothers without children. I am sure a story of a bereaved mom could be incorporated in there even if it did cause awkwardness to people who havent experienced what I have. Are you a mother without a baby? Can you tell me your story? X
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