How do you get through it?

[Worriedscot2207]

Hiya everyone! I just wanted to add a thread for a little advice please?

My SIL is now entering her 3rd trimester and I’m so happy for her! We were bump buddies a few months ago, until I miscarried at 11 wks 😔
She already has a daughter & 2 prev MCs and I know how hard this fertility business has been for her and even more delighted this one sticks!
I’m struggling now I know due date is approaching and struggling with TTC again with my cycles being all over the place & ovulated for the first time in months this cycle!
Can anyone advise how to keep on? Feel that time is totally against me,
Thanks for reading xox

[keeponrunning85]

I think you just muddle on the best you can. Take a step back if you need to. Have a good cry when you need to. Does your SIL know about your miscarriage? Generally I found that things were easier once the baby was born.

[fidgetsmumx]

I agree with PP, things definitely seem to get easier once baby is born. Me and OHs cousin were both pregnant at the same time, we lost ours but she carried a healthy baby. I found it far easier once baby was there and the pregnancy part was over.
Obviously a big congratulations on becoming an auntie, you will get your rainbow baby! So focus on that xxx

[Chattette1]

Muddling along us good advice. Try to stay positive even though sometimes that's the hardest thing in the world. Don't put pressure on yourself to be ok, just get through day by day and know that in time you will feel better.