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Second mc..

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paigeleeforever182 Wed 07-Feb-18 20:24:22

Going through my second mc.. still can’t believe it. Not sure where to go from here.. 😔 Any advice is appreciated

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SoupyNorman Wed 07-Feb-18 20:27:42

flowers I’m so sorry.

I had two mcs in a row, and went on to have a successful pregnancy. Didn’t have any tests or anything, although I was very anxious in my third pregnancy until I had an NHS reassurance scan at 9 weeks.

Sometimes it’s just rotten bad luck. I do remember reading somewhere that 2 mcs don’t really increase your risk of a third - it’s only after three that the odds become more difficult.

Take the time to recover physically and emotionally. It really is a shit time.

TheCatsPaws Thu 08-Feb-18 07:52:10

Ive had four OP. I’m so sorry this has happened to you, it’s honestly shit.

My advice would be get someone to talk to. I didn’t and ended up with what they think is PTSD.

fidgetsmumx Sat 10-Feb-18 09:26:02

Hi, I’ve had 3 losses. My first was followed by a healthy pregnancy but after that I’ve had 2 in a row. It can be incredibly frustrating, not knowing why and feeling you are broken. I highly recommend speaking to people, it doesn’t mean you won’t go on to have a healthy pregnancy. I find reading success stories helpful, gives me hope.

Wish you the best of luck, here if you need a shoulder x

Chattette1 Sun 11-Feb-18 21:16:06

I've had two OP and am still trying to conceive number one. I'm terrified at the prospect of being pregnant again and coping with the anxiety. I'm sorry for what you're going through. Statistically things are on your side. Have you been to see your GP? Mine has ran some basic bloods and talking to a doctor has helped slightly.

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