I wonder if anyone has felt traumatized during/after their miscarriage?
Decided to take the natural route, following being told that my baby's heart had stopped beating at 8.4 weeks, discovered this at 10 week scan. I am 42 and had conceived with the help of IVF, first attempt, so had been monitored regularly with scans, which had all been ok!
After 11 days of waiting to miscarry, there were absolutely no signs, so decided to take the medical option. Took Cytotec on Sunday morning and had, I think, the worst day of my life. I was told to expect mild period type cramps but what I experienced was Labour type contractions, every few minutes for like an hour and a half, followed by strong period type cramps and passing of blood clots, the size of my palm. This continued until 1pm Monday morning, when I finally managed to get some sleep.
The bleeding was extremely heavy, as expected but during Monday the pains would come and go. I had to go and see the doctor yesterday (Tuesday) to get my anti D shot, as I'm Rhs negative. He decided to take a look only to discover that the placenta was stuck in my Cervix and this is why I was expericening the pain. He decided to remove it there and then which was excruciating!! I sobbed and sobbed the whole way through it and today I feel violated and traumatized. I still have pain and am so worried that I may have to go through this again. I really don't think that I could take it!
Has anyone else had an experience like this? Please help?
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Miscarriage, feeling traumatized!!
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Shellybelly22 · 28/06/2017 13:10
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