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Miscarriage/pregnancy loss

😔 so useless

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Lolly34h · 03/04/2017 20:16

Had an early miscarriage confirmed today and I feel so empty and hopeless.

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DevilWearsPrimark · 03/04/2017 20:25

You poor thing Flowers. What a horrible thing to have happen

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wonderwoo · 03/04/2017 20:32

Flowers so sorry to hear that. Hope you have some support in rl?

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Lolly34h · 03/04/2017 20:54

Not really my partner thinks I should just be OK I think. And I'm so incredibly sad. His family weren't happy about it either so I think their all relieved too.

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Cocoabean25 · 03/04/2017 21:35

You're bound to feel empty and hopeless - that's exactly how I felt. I'm still sad and my miscarriage happened 3 months ago. Take the time you need and talk to those who will understand. People on here are so supportive and have cheered me up when I've had low moments xxx

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escorpion · 03/04/2017 21:38

So sorry Lolly. I had two miscarriages in 2013. It never leaves you. People who havent gone through the same could never understand. Never give up hope Flowers

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wonderwoo · 03/04/2017 22:06

That's even harder without supportive people around you. You must feel very lonely with your sadness. Have you any friends you can talk to?

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Lolly34h · 04/04/2017 17:30

I have 2 children 12 and 14 but not with my current partner. He wants to try straightaway but I'm not keen on him even touching me let alone making a baby right now

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PossibiliTea · 04/04/2017 19:56

Flowers so sorry to hear that x

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wonderwoo · 04/04/2017 20:55

Oh it's so early. I am afraid I have no wise words other than to say try to be kind to yourself and try not to feel any pressure to be okay again or to try again. You need him to be there just to listen and support for now.

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