Miscarriage/ coping/ please help me

(3 Posts)
Charlottehill123 Thu 16-Mar-17 23:04:28

I was pregnant with a little boy, me and my partner grew to love him so much and one day I misscarried whilst at work, I blame myself so much for this and I really can't get over it. It's been 6 months now and I still talk to the scan picture, I kiss the picture every night before bed and I kiss it when I wake up to feel close to my little boy, we bought him a teddy and I have slept with him every single day since. I talk to the teddy just to feel close to him, I feel like everyone's forgot about my little morgan apart from me and I miss him so much. How do people cope ?

Helbelle75 Thu 16-Mar-17 23:20:59

So sorry for your loss. I had a mmc last year and it was devastating.
I found that counselling really helped me - I contacted cruse and they were very good.
Please don't blame yourself.

Cocoabean25 Fri 17-Mar-17 20:20:46

So to hear what you're going through. I had a miscarriage 2 months ago and our stories seem quite similar. I have a memorable bracelet that I kiss before I go to bed each night and also have a teddy that sleeps in bed with me. People always tell me that we're grieving so what we're feeling is normal. I've thought about counselling but right now just want to take my own time to grieve. I think that if you've got to the point where you feel like you need some help then go to your doctor and talk to them about how you feel. Grieving after a miscarriage is horrible because we're grieving for so much more than just the baby. It's also horrible to love someone so much when they're not here anymore. Sending a big hug to you xxxxx

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