I have just had a miscarriage nearly two weeks ago. It was my first pregnancy. I was 12 wks from my LMP (and only 4 days before I was supposed to have my 12 wk scan), but the measurements the doctor gave show that is stopped developing very, very early on.
It is sad and frustrating to think that it took so long for the miscarriage to start - it feels like my time was somehow wasted, and we were given this false sense of security to start making plans and believing that we were going to be parents, when all along it was never going to happen. Although, I did say all along that I didn't feel pregnant, as I had very few pregnancy symptoms - in retrospect, I suppose this was a bad sign, but the midwife at my booking in appointment didn't seem concerned about it, so I'm some women have no symptoms and still have a healthy pregnancy.
It took us four months to get pregnant, and then 12 wks of this pregnancy, and now it will possibly up to 8 more wks to get my period back and try again (I'm still having some light bleeding). That's an awful long time just to get back to square one. I'm 33, so not that old, but I do feel that my time is somewhat limited, plus we were 'waiting to try' for two/three years before that, so it feels like it's been forever.
Anyway, the reason I'm posting is that the doctor said, if/when I get pregnant again, I should have a scan at 7 weeks. This would be a massive relief, as, if there was a heartbeat and a developing fetus at this point, I'd know we'd already be further along than this time, and I wouldn't have to wait until 12 weeks to know more.
But this was not at my normal hospital, I was at work when I started bleeding, and went in to the nearest hospital, where I was given an emergency scan and the bad news. She did write it in my discharge notes, though, so I have it in writing.
I just want to know if this scan at 7 weeks is normal and if anyone has any advice on making sure my hospital will go ahead with this?
I went straight to the GP at 5 weeks this time and got a referral to the midwives, but I didn't have my booking-in appointment until 9 weeks. I guess next time I can self-refer direct to the midwives, but I'm just feeling very anxious that they'll say it's a different policy here. Maybe I could check this with them now somehow?
Any advice would be much appreciated!
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Pregnancy after miscarriage - were you offered a scan at 7 wks?
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JaneEyreFunfair · 08/03/2017 11:33
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