Background story:
- 1 DS born in Autumn 2012 after 12 months ttc.
- started ttc #2 in 2014 and had BFP after 3 months but mc at 9 weeks in hospital. No chromosomal issues found.
- another 9wk mc the following Spring (ERPC)
- since then had 3 positive tests and missed periods but then positives faded and heavy-period-type bleed.
Other info: I am nearly 41 and already had high BMI but have put on a lot more weight since last year (lost a stone since Jan but still obese). I have a stressful job (head of charity in financial difficulty) but can't afford to give up work.
Been to GP 3 x since the summer asking for RMC referral but nothing ever came through. Finally the GP surgery chased and chased and an appt came through for Feb. This was then delayed until 7 March (i.e. tomorrow) and today I have had a BFP. It says on the letter to cancel appt but given that I will just mc again and the appt has taken 8 months to get and time is running short, should I just go? Should I tell them when I get there or will they test anyway? Could any of the tests potentially harm the pregnancy?
It's a stronger + than I've had in the last few pregnancies, but I am trying not to get my hopes up.