Feel as though I am going crazy. I had a mmc in late November. It was my first pregnancy and I am 39. It took me 3 months to concieve.
I have spoken to two friends (who have had kids), both of whom have advised me to go for tests after my mc. It can't be done on the NHS so I would have to go private. Frankly I suffer from anxiety anyways and I fear more tests would increase this. I am scared as any test results IF they come out negative or unusual would just upset/stress me out further. I did ask nurses at the EPU to check for any uterune abnormailities, they said it looked fine. I have also had routine blood tests recently which showed Vit D deficiency. Friends have advised me to see a consultant privately. But part of me thinks just try again as mc is unfortunately very common at my age.
But then I think I should have tests see if I do have a problem now, rather than later, when I have wasted more time. And maybe explore other options such as IVF.
I really don't know what to do. My DP is struggling as I am constantly googling fertility info and becoming obsessive. Any wisdom, guidance or tips to remain sane would be appreciated .
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SammyL100 · 02/01/2017 18:52
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