Worst Xmas Ever: PG, MC, TTC, mixed emotions (all awful) aaarrgh help please

veryberrybug · 2016-12-27 16:00:54

Rollercoaster Xmas. 7th Dec found out was PG (with copper coil in). Shocked (have 2 DDs at High School). Really happy & DP v chuffed. Doc says gotta get coil out, longer it's left = more risk of MC. Coil out -> next day MC, 13th Dec. Devastated. But hoping to TTC again. Bleeding finished. Chat with DP xmas eve - he's defo not up for TTC. Double Devastation. It was the only thought that was getting me through. He was so happy with the surprise I thought he'd be up for it. Now everything's so crappy & bleak & pointless. Looked up MN for comfort, found ref to pregnancy continuing with coil in. Am now beating myself up because it never occurred to me I could do that - feeling like I've just lost my last chance cos I just did what GP said. Supersad. Anyone else had this happen? How can I get through?? DDs gone out & I just been howling all afternoon.

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