Hi all,
We found out this week that I have had a MMC at around 9.5 weeks. The baby had only developed to about 6.5 weeks. We're pretty devastated but feel very lucky that we at least know that we CAN get pregnant and also that it happened within the first 12 weeks and we had lots of warning signs that the pregnancy wasn't going well (constant spotting, only mild pregnancy symptoms, delayed growth etc).
I wondered if any of you ladies would be willing to share your experiences of the next steps following a MMC. I have to decide whether to let it happen naturally, take the pills, have a D&C under general or an MVA (which I had never even heard of!).
I have a high BMI so am inclined to avoid general anesthesia if I can, but having had a very traumatic botched coil insertion the idea of an MVA terrifies me. I've read that the pills can increase the pain of miscarriage and make it happen quite violently. My instinct is to let it happen naturally but the midwife said this could take anywhere up to 2 months and I'm 32 so I want to start trying again as soon as possible. So I feel a bit stuck between a rock and a hard place and would really appreciate any advice or experiences you would be willing to share.
An added complication is that I don't get sick pay (I've been in my job under a year) so although we can afford for me to have a few days off, I do need to avoid having an extended period of time off - so if you could share how much time you needed to take off work I would be really grateful.
Thanks ladies.
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