Anniversary of MC

(3 Posts)
Pornflakes Sun 25-Sep-16 22:01:33

I don't know how I feel if I'm honest. I'm sad, but I don't know how to deal with it. I lost my baby at 11 weeks, a year ago tomorrow, and it was one of the hardest days of my life.

Thinking positively, I'm nearly 38 weeks pregnant again, and have an ELCS booked for 2 weeks time, but again if I'm truly honest with myself I'm not sure I'm ready. It's almost like I'm in denial, and it's not hit me that I'm going to be a mum again. I have a DS who is 4 and he is my world, and I love this baby too. I just feel totally confused and needed to ramble on for a bit to people who might have been there before. Just need to take every day as it comes I think.

Blue4ever Sun 25-Sep-16 22:07:41

I supported a dear friend who went through a miscarriage and it helped her a lot to write her feelings down. Also don't forget that your body and mind have to deal with lots of hormones and many women feel confused, insecure and doubtful at some stages of their pregnancy.

Tomorrow try to go for a nice walk, or pick up the phone to speak to a friend.

PacificDogwod Sun 25-Sep-16 22:09:39

Sorry for your loss, and that you are feeling sad now.

I had 4 MMCs and tbh I can only remember the date of one of them (and only because it's the same date as my DM's birthday...).

Best of luck with your current pregnancy - you're almost there.
And with time, the happy dates will outlast the sad ones.
thanks

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