Hi,
I'm new to mumsnet, I just felt I need to write something down and see if anyone can help rather than spending anymore hours Googling all this.
My baby was suppose to be 11 weeks and routine scan Friday showed it stopped growing at 8+1 weeks and there was no heartbeat. I spent the weekend looking for strands of hope and requested another scan, which I had this morning. Which confirmed what Friday's scan had said.
So now I'm left to face the difficultly of it all and have chosen 'Surgical Management', because physically (still feeling very much pregnant with nausea etc etc) and emotionally/mentally I don't feel I can cope with the alternatives.
I'm petrified of the surgery. Not the actual surgery part but of the waking up part. I've had 2 General Anaesthetics before and have felt so ill for a week afterwards. I just wondered how other felt when they woke up from this 'procedure'? The nurse said its light so wouldn't be too bad but I don't feel like anything the hospital says right now is manageable.
I've read a lot of ladies stories but they only mention the bleeding part and not if you feel any nausea etc.
I know in the circumstances this is really the last thing you'd think I'd be worrying about, but I just don't feel like I could take that illness after all of this. I'm heart-broken.
Thanks in advance
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