I don't really know exactly what I'm looking for here, but I'd be interested in others' experiences and opinions.
I've been pregnant five times; we have one DD who is four. Following her birth, I've had miscarriages at 8 weeks (one singleton and one twins), then a stillbirth at 36w. I've just been through a third miscarriage, and to be honest, it's hit me like a tonne of bricks. Much, much harder than previously.
I'm desperate for another child, I'm not ready to accept that my family is complete at this stage. I love babies, children - I work with them and can't imagine things any other way. I'd always imagined I'd have a little brood of my own. DH is the same, though his imaginary family size is limited by a standard family car :) But...I just don't know how I'll cope if the same happens again - another first-trimester loss, or (God forbid) another stillbirth. I don't know I'd survive intact.
In the absence of a medical crystal ball, what makes you decide to plough on? What makes you say no - enough is enough? If someone told me I couldn't have any more, we would look to adopt, without question. But I don't know if I can legitimately head down that route unless I'm sure my uterus is being retired.
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ChatEnOeuf · 22/04/2016 22:43
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