Hello all - just wondering how open people are about their miscarriage(s).
I have one DS (4 yo) and we have been TTC for 1 year. We have had 2 mc's (11.5 weeks and 5 weeks) and now just been diagnosed with PCOS.
Anyway - I'm finding due to DS age and the general way of things, I'm being asked 'so will you have another?' An awful lot these days. I have got very good at deferring it or just saying 'yes if we are lucky'.
But actually, sometimes I want to say 'yes we have been trying and had a miscarriage(s) but hoping it will happen soon'. And I wondered what harm that wld do. Obviously it depends who's asking, I know some people would feel awkward, but sometimes I've felt other people would be OK hearing that and then felt I shouldn't say it because that isn't the 'done' thing.
Just wondered how other people manage that situation?
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Are you honest about your miscarriages when asked 'so will you have another child?'
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Lucinda15 · 28/01/2016 07:30
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