This will make me sound like I sleep around which I don't
First miscarriage was in October with exdp when we split up and he kicked me out - still struggling to deal with it.
Met someone in at the beginning November things moved pretty quick and there was about 3-4 weeks of unprotected sex using the withdrawal method - stupid I know! I then had the implant fitted etc. I started bleeding with what I thought was the implant settling in until I got some massive clots that didn't seem right so went to docs etc etc confirmed early miscarriage yesterday.
I never knew I was pregnant either time but really struggling to deal with it as 1st one: exdp didn't care and wouldn't talk to me about it 2nd one: the guy cut all contact with me out the blue the day before I found out
be thankful that you didn't have a baby with either of them. It's better to wait as once you have a baby with someone you are linked to them for life. Be kind to yourself and look after yourself, STD check and no more unprotected sex until you meet the one.