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I never thought it would happen to me.

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MsFiestyPants Sun 02-Aug-15 09:57:04

Im in the midst of MC much wanted DC 1 / 3 ( Dps bio first mY third ) we found out super early but as ive previously sailed through (its conception that I had previously struggled with due to pcos which is now under control) we stupidly thought we would be fine.

we are not fine. our baby has clearly died before it even got to be. im bleeding and there are huge clots and its all just shite.

just wanted to put it down really. I know.we can try again and I know these things cant be helped but friends who say 'you were barely pregnant' or 'it was just a ball of cells' or 'it wouldve died anyway' just dont get it. sad

GlitteringJasper Sun 02-Aug-15 13:47:15

It's terrible, my sympathies.

I had a missed miscarriage 2 weeks ago, we arrived at 12 week scan to be told there was no baby, I was heartbroken.

I have two other children, one boy and one girl and people really aren't the most understanding when you already have children. I suppose it's a very difficult thing to know what to say to people and they feel like they have to jolly you along.

Hope you are getting plenty of support.

lonelystarbuckslover Mon 03-Aug-15 00:10:06

Thinking of you. I had a MMC in February, I've been crying my face off tonight. I too, get it.

Lots of love xx

Baffledmumtoday Mon 03-Aug-15 00:15:51

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MsFiestyPants Mon 03-Aug-15 14:21:48

thank you all, and thanks to you all too. been to the hospital this morning for checks. PG test neg and followed up with bloods so thats that.

people say you can try again but thats not the point. mehsad

MrsMattMurdock Mon 03-Aug-15 16:05:17

Been exactly where you are, a month ago. It's shit shit shit shitty shit. Just got home from hospital as I didn't miscarry quite everything and had to have a procedure. Remember you are hormonal which makes you feel bad too. Feel meh for as long as you want and put yourself first for a bit. You will get through it.

Brummiegirl15 Tue 04-Aug-15 21:49:45

I'm so sorry. I get it, totally.

I've had 3 mc's in the last 14 months. First one, I never dreamt it would happen to me. It always happened to other people.

Number 2, well I've already had 1, definitely no chance of it happening again.

Number 3, well I was always told recurrent miscarriage is really rare. Docs wouldn't help me as the chance of having a 3rd in a row are very rare.

Hmmm well that was a shit bit I advice and support.

My 3rd due date is on Friday. Grieved through 2 already.

It's the shittiest most heartbreaking thing ever.

But, I'm now 14 weeks pregnant after the darkest year of my life. After reaching depths of sadness and despair I never ever thought existed. Please don't give up

Hugs to you all flowers

thelionsleeps Tue 04-Aug-15 21:54:03

It is so shit as previous people have said and you have all those plans for your family and dreams. However early it happens it doesn't matter - it is still the loss of your much wanted baby. Try and take it easy if you can - I had 2 weeks off work with my first one so take as much time as you need.

I have had 2 mmc and I think it is like lots of things that you don't think will ever happen to you.

Big hugs x

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