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babyangelbean20315 Fri 30-Jan-15 09:09:02

I jus miss being pregnant soo much I miss buying things I miss looking forward to a new start I miss my baby I miss planning for when you got here I miss it all soo much....I think about what could have been happening every single day, I don't know how I'm going to get over everything I think I'm doing okay and then it all hits me again. I love my bean and I miss u soo much

ToriB34 Fri 30-Jan-15 14:51:36

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blacktreaclecat Fri 30-Jan-15 14:54:40

I'm sorry that you are going through this. It does get easier but tbh the only thing that healed me was having a healthy baby. I hope it happens for you soon x

pocketsized Fri 30-Jan-15 15:35:39

I'm sorry you are going through this Op. I know nothing I can say will make that awful longing and despair go away, but please do know that what you are feeling is so very normal and appropriate to what has happened to you, and you will eventually get through it. I had to focus on one moment/hour/day at a time, and very slowly it became bearable.
Thinking of you at this very sad time.

Brummiegirl15 Sat 31-Jan-15 10:00:58

I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm recovering from my 3rd mc and I feel your pain.

Take each day as it comes and be kind to yourself. It never goes away - it is like a rock that you carry with you. It will never go away but you learn to live with it.

And please take comfort in the fact that should you decide to try again that you are starting afresh with a new pregnancy and new hope.


PassTheGinBottle Sat 31-Jan-15 11:06:00

I'm so sorry for your loss. It is utterly heartbreaking, isn't it?

I have no words to make it better. I think in these situations we have to just hope that time may make it slightly less painful.

What will make it slightly easier is the wonderful, supportive, honest and non-judgey ladies on this board. They are fantastic. Just keep posting here - there will always be someone to hold your hand.

Much love flowers

flora717 Sun 01-Feb-15 21:14:35

Much love and sorrow for your loss. flowers It's been a while for me since my 2mc. There are days where it will still hits me hard. I think of my Roo and Kanga so often, the pain can be so much.
Sometimes I send secret donations (such as foodbanks, DV refuges) 'from' my two lost ones. It helps thinking someone out there has read their name/ felt their influence. OK so they're not people. But they do nice things. (Weird I know). It helps me so much though.
hands available to hold here.

MamaLazarou Mon 02-Feb-15 20:23:46

I'm very sorry for your loss. Talk about your feelings as much as you can. Tell us, we will listen.

It will get easier.

Big hug X

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