I MC naturally (@9 weeks) 2 weeks ago, and although the bleeding has almost stopped, i still get stomach 'twinges', however moreover i'm petrified that sex will hurt when we eventually get round to resuming our sex life again.
DH has been fantastic, but i don't think he fully 'gets' that even once the physical pain has gone, the emotional scars that are left will take a lot longer to get over.
I'm even scared to 'sort myself out' so to speak, i'm scared that an orgasm will start the horrendous stomach pains i had in the first week after MC.
We've decided to leave it a couple of months before having sex without contraception, as i was overdue for a smear test so would like to get that sorted to see if there were any underlying problems that could have resulted in the MC, but it still petrifies me with the thought of anyone being 'down there'. I couldn't even go through with the internal scan at the EPU.
Am i being hormonal? Is this normal? Sorry but we only found out we were pregnant 10 days before i miscarried so i feel like i'm an emtional rambling mess at the moment - we never even got to have a scan of the baby.
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Scared Sex will hurt after MC
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confettiwoman · 02/09/2013 12:20
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