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have just started to miscarry :( anyone up?

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jkb Wed 10-Apr-13 01:52:27

You may have seen my thread on here before.I lost my baby at 19 weeks in November last year....fell pregnant again,was so thrilled ...& e weeks ago the nightmare started...I was suspected of having a rare ectopic c section scar pregnancy & kept in hospital for over a week...aftermri scan etc...they said it wasent,just a pregnancy very close to it...& that they were 99% sure the pregnancy wouldn't survive...was sent away...rescanin 2 weeks.
I still had hope...I really did...
Then today the brown spotting started...& mild constant period cramps....
Then 20 mins ago....pop...blood & clots just fell out...
Had a look thru as I managed to get to the loo where I had a bowlset up in loo...(sorry if tmi) can't see any sac...just lots of clots? Is there more to come? Pain so far is manageable? Will it get worse? I'm 8 weeks +4

lemontruffles Sun 14-Apr-13 03:34:41

Oh, poor you, racing thoughts are no fun especially when you're so tired sad

Maybe try to focus on a couple of very peaceful words, and repeat them to yourself? Maybe words like 'calm' and 'sleep' and 'peace'? Just gently shift your thoughts onto these words before sleep comes? I've used this sort of focusing when I've been very stressed with my mind racing, and it does help.

Jenijena Sun 14-Apr-13 04:24:30

Handholding here too. Echoing the thoughts that maybe something nice to read or listen to? Can you find a podcast to listen to that will fill your mind of something less bad dream provoking?

GiraffesAndButterflies Sun 14-Apr-13 04:48:07

Poor you OP. sad flowers I don't have anything new to suggest but didn't want to read and run. Hope you are ok flowers

Accentuatethepositive Sun 14-Apr-13 05:12:22

Oh no jkb that sounds horrible and scary. Holding your hand, is your DH there to hold it IRL? Otherwise I can only suggest a warm milky drink and a comforting read- I often resort to children's books at stressful times. Hope you're sleeping now.

mirai Sun 14-Apr-13 06:18:14

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

jkb Sun 14-Apr-13 19:17:21

Thank u for all the company & support last night...I eventually fell back to sleep to b woken by contractions! Arhhhhhhh.
Took my pain releif & went back to sleep & dreams galore..this time I was raped!!! Horrific! This pain releif is shocking...if I don't take it I'm in agony...if I do I'm dreaming!

Accentuatethepositive Sun 14-Apr-13 20:33:40

Oh that's awful. Wishing you sweeter dreams tonight - have the contractions stopped yet?

Accentuatethepositive Mon 15-Apr-13 16:49:33

Hope you got some nightmare-free rest last night and that the pain is passing now. Thinking of you.

jkb Mon 15-Apr-13 22:35:07

Hi ladies xx

The nightmares r still happening...but thankfully not as vivid or distressing as before.
Bleeding really stemmed too...barely anything...then BANG..pains came out of nowhere this morning & within 10 minutes I was pouring with blood....the worst I have ever a tap!? I passed 4 huge pieces of flesh looking stuff & several clots...the last one was size of my palm! (tmi..apologises)...just ad we were contemplating calling 999,finally...45 mins later...bleeding slowed....
Now..bleeding stopped again?
I'm thrilled this came out by d&c was last thing consultant wanted.but so much blood n bits? How can a womb hold all this? Consultant has warned me there may b some more of these "events"...altho she hopes the worst of it is over? Today's blood was worse than miscarriage.itself...all very frightening & confusing...scared to leave the house

Accentuatethepositive Tue 16-Apr-13 01:54:58

Oh dear, that sounds frightening. Can yu call the hospital to check whether you need to go back in? That does sound like heavy bleeding. Really hoping things get better for you soon.

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