I had a mc in Sept and dh and I decided not to tell anyone other than our managers (due to needing time off work) and his Dad who is a doctor.
However, my step SIL had a baby last week and my sis is due in Feb. EVERY time I speak to my Dad, pretty much the whole conversation is about pregnancy, babies, being on red alert for a delivery, now on
amber alert until my niece/nephew arrives and I'm really struggling with this.
I've started to come to the conclusion that the best way to deal with this is to say something. He isn't doing it deliberately and I'm sure he'd be gutted if he knew how he was making me feel. But I've never been good at sharing my feelings with my parents and just don't know how to go about telling him. We live far away so it would need to be by phone. I also don't want to add any additional stress to my Dad and Step Mum by them worrying about me.
I also didn't really want anyone to know we are ttc and am worried this will add pressure if we
struggle to conceive in the future.
Has anyone been in a similar situation? I just don't know what to do for the best and would really appreciate some advice. Thanks xxx
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