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Miscarriage/pregnancy loss

There one day, gone the next.....

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Floozycat · 02/04/2012 16:56

Im so devastated and confused. I had a scan on Friday just gone, and all was good! The following morning I had a moderate bleed, bright red blood with no clots, after myself and DP had the first sex we've had since finding out we were pg. Knowing it is very difficult to be scanned over the weekend, unless it's deemed an emergency, we decided to pay for a private scan that afternoon. Fast forward to the scan and the sonographer can't see an embryo at all; gestation and yolk sac still there. She didn't know I'd already had viable pregnancy confirmed the day before, so suggested that it may be a miscarriage or just too early. I know from the scan the day before I was 6+6/40. I'm now so confused how the baby can have passed, leaving the sacs there? I haven't passed any clots in any of my later bleeds, but somehow the baby is gone. Just devastated....that's about it.

Going to hospital tomorrow, so hopefully I will find out what is going on and I can get some closure. Ive loved my baby since I got my BFP and now have to let go. So so sad
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OP posts:
qazxc · 02/04/2012 18:22

oh god floozycat, I'm so sorry. Please look after yourself and post on the boards, i know it helped me a lot.

Floozycat · 02/04/2012 18:44

Thank u. You're right it does help x

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lola4lee · 02/04/2012 19:12

So sorry for your loss.
x

jus3351 · 02/04/2012 23:27

Hi, sorry to hear what you're going through, it's a terrible feeling. I've been through exactly the same thing, scan revealed an empty sac and I hadn't noticed losing any clots either. It is hard but also natures cruel way. I do know how you feel. x

Ellovera · 04/04/2012 08:12

Hi so sorry , how did you get on at the hospital? I hope you get some answers . Very sorry :-(

AntsMarching · 04/04/2012 08:16

I'm so sorry. It's a horrible, cruel feeling and there are no words that make it feel any better.

Big hugs to you. Take care of yourself.

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