Well here is my story and I know it isn't as bad as some on here but I just need to get it all off my chest!
Me and DH started ttc in May last year and we were very happy when it only took 1 month, then at 12 and a half weeks only a few days from our first scan I started bleeding, went to hospital and found out it had died at 8wks, had to wait a week to then have a dnc after a 2nd scan. We were devastated as to be expected.
It took us a while to get back to ttc properly and xmas eve i had a positive test, great....then new years day I had a very heavy bleed (didn't see the point in going to doctors etc as obviously mc) I was 6 weeks.
Then we got another positive test 3 weeks ago, i went to doctors straight away to try and get early scans etc, then just a week and a half later the bleeding started again, went to a+e had blood test and scan and yep mc again, again I was 6 weeks.
So I finally get a referral..yipee....that was today and I felt so anxious and was kept waiting for over an hour, to be told the consultant doesn't want to do any tests as I seem very healthy and my last 2 pregnancies barely count, I just have to keep trying as obviously I don't have a fertility problem but maybe just have a couple of months break!
Even though he may be right and I may just get there in the end I would have felt better if it would have seemed like he was trying........I know I am probably over reacting but I just needed to rant to someone as only my Dad and my work colleagues know about the last 2 mc, so apart from partner I don't have anyone to talk to properly.Even though my partner has been great.
I know I'm lucky because I'm only 28, but I've been wanting this since I was 16 and now I have to wait even more and possible have even more mc's and just hope one sticks.
Sorry so long and thankyou for reading xx
I wish everyone out there the best of luck with ttc or your pregnancies xx
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lola4lee · 23/03/2012 19:49
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